Hi and thanks for this query.
I am so sorry to hear about what you experienced after sex.
Bleeding during or after intercourse is not uncommon. During sex, you may sustain a small laceration or
bruise that causes bleeding. This will normally stop after the act is stopped. However, if you bleed after every intercourse, then you need to be evaluated for possible vaginal and cervical infections or other causes.
Continue trying to get pregnant. It is a game of luck. Unless you try for at least 1year, you cannot be considered an evaluated for
infertility. Some advice is to have sex as at least every other day when not menstruating to maximise your chances. Be patient and you will have your own
pregnancy. If it should however exceed a year, then please meet and talk with your
OBGYN about your difficulties.
I hope you find this information helpful.
I wish you good health, success with the search for pregnancy and regards to your husband. Always feel free to request more information and answers from me using this forum.
Dr. Ditah, MD.