Um...not sure if this works but I'm going to try it out anyways. So I'm in this relationship (My first one) I don't have any diseases and I'm pretty sure my partner doesn't either...well I hope he doesn't. Anyways we had kissed a couple of times and there was nothing wrong..until I had gotten a call from him saying that he has a bump on his lip, what's weird is that I have the same thing, I didn't think it was a big deal because I know that you get acne and stuff from "bad oils" like if you touch your face, or eat chocolate, etc. etc. but that was when I came across this forum saying it could be herpes and I was really worried because I never encountered this until I started kissing my boyfriend. Hopefully it's nothing...just our lip oils being fused together creating these mysterious but worrying bumps.