Hello, You are suggested to date a mentally sound person for a healthy, loving, long term relationship. Traits of an inverted narcissist are of dependent personality disorder. After ending a relationship, s/he seeks to establish another relationship that provides support and protection. They can go extra mile to protect their relationship. They have difficulty in taking decisions and can t take responsibility of self or others. Inverted narcissists are insecure adults due to their traumatic (psychological trauma or emotional neglect) experience in their childhood. While the Narcissists are ones who lack empathy, they show arrogant or haughty behavior or attitudes. Narcissists are unable to maintain intimate relationships. They don’t have the emotional capacity to relate in authentic, intimate ways. They look at every relationship to feed the narcissist’s ego. They have an excessive admiration for self. They believe that they are very special and so need to only associate with high status people. Self esteem is vey important for them. You are suggested to take a little rest, give time to yourself to recover from the painful event you went through. Recover from emotional stress, give yourself adequate time. Just relax & take care of your self. Stay away from addictions if any. Switch to healthy lifestyle and healthy eating. Do regular exercises, maintain good hygiene. Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Nupur K., General & Family Physician