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If your partner has got an STD/
HIV the body secretions including vaginal, oral, anal secretions no matter directly touched/licked or licked the soaked underwear may transmit the disease. But using a condom (mostly made of latex and is the best barried method) reduces the chances of spread of disease.
Touching/kissing/licking other body parts when there isn't any wound, is safer until unless there was no cross contamination of the vaginal oran or anal fluids on other body parts.
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DR. MUHAMMAD M. HANIF
USA