hi, i m 4 months married from 2 months i m living with my parents, my husband use 2 cry a lot, he use 2 hit himself in anger very frequently, he use to abuse me during sexuall relashionship he use 2 say that i wont pay u and abuses which i would not like 2 mention is this a normall case or he needs councelling i m ready 2 help him but in his mother influence he has started saying that i choosed a wrong patner in life and he ha completely given things in his parents hands, its a love marriage as he had lots of fight at his place before maariage as his mother was not ready for me kindly suggest i need ur advice