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hello I'm a healthy 41 year old woman who is seriously dating a man who is 33..we both are very sexual..with each other..he is more so than me. And he wants Anal sex. ive never done before..he says its very painful and that if he goes slow with cream or oil after few days it will feel so good like the best sex ever. is this true and what are my risks and is this safe to do
As a physician I would like to tell you that anal intercourse can transmit various infections, as well as can cause damages to anal ring and perineal area if done in improper way and is not a natural way of having sex. Also, if both of you are willing and you are enjoying it, you can go forward with it.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards, Dr. Abhijeet
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What Are The Risks Of Anal Intercourse?
Hi, As a physician I would like to tell you that anal intercourse can transmit various infections, as well as can cause damages to anal ring and perineal area if done in improper way and is not a natural way of having sex. Also, if both of you are willing and you are enjoying it, you can go forward with it. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Abhijeet