my wife thinks I have had a stroke. I do not think so. I just got out of the hospital for out patient surgery where they put a stint in my tube running from my kidney to my bladder. We had a bad fight last night over our mortgage refinance scheduled for today. It was very successful, mostly to my wife s efforts. She is retiring next week, which has added to the stress. The fight was a yelling and accusation match over the mortgage terms and payments. Bottom line she did a great job in putting the deal together. But the stress on me after this fight....and actually any fight we have had in our 43 years of marriage, usually puts a great deal of stress an sadness on me. It takes my about 3 days to recover, Well I have been hurting tonight...mostly physical, but also emotionally after our disagreement over the fight. I plan to call the surgeon in the morning. however my wife wants to take me to the hospital now. I think I am just physically spent from last night s yelling match and the operation. I am trying to reach my son to get a second opinion. Any input you may have would be appreciated. Regards, stu