My wife blames me for everything. Even when she is wrong about something she puts a spin on it and gets mad at me no matter how delicate I am about telling her.. She doesn't tell me anything cuz she thinks she doesn't have to cuz she is better than me.. The whole family including hers thinks she has some issues... She blames everything on me drinking to much.. And I do drink quite a bit... But when I stop things get worse because she can't blame it on that and starts making up other excuses for MY problems... She even asks people over without asking me or telling and tells them to bring beer and wine.. After I haven't drank for a while... Her sisters even had a talk with her and she blamed everything on me... Trust me if it were me they would have had the talk with me... Ian's I try and be the perfect husband and father but its not good enough.. The harder I try to look good the more depressed she gets..the more she can put me down to make herself look better the happier she is ... I think she NPD... Narrcalistic personality disorder...if its true I know I'm screwed...I've been searching for years on a condition and this one fits her to a tee... They could have wrote the book on her...help me plz.. I love my wife and am a Christian and dont believe in Devorce