Hello, and I hope I can help you today.
The "breaking" of a woman's
hymen during the first attempt at vaginal penetration is not the same for every woman. For one, many girls accidentally rupture their hymen playing sports or with other activities long before they try to have sex. In addition, your hymen is a ring shaped membrane that has a different sized opening for every woman. In some women the hymen can merely stretch open from intercourse rather than rupture completely, especially if your vagina is relaxed and you are well lubricated during sex. This can mean that you may not bleed or bleed very little from your first attempt at intercourse. And in your particular case- you did bleed, but just such a small amount that you didn't see it until the next day. I believe you mistook your "period" for the bleeding from your hymen, especially if it was not at the time when you expected your period and it was so short. And besides, you are a virgin until the first time you have sexual intercourse, no matter what your hymen does.
I am sorry your boyfriend is giving you a hard time, but I hope the information I have given you can help you let him know that your hymen did probably bleed, and that you definitely were a virgin until you shared that special part of your sexual history with him. Please use
contraception if you plan to continue having intercourse and do not want to become pregnant.
I hope this information was helpful and that I was able to answer your question.
Best regards, Dr. Brown