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What Causes Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse?

Hi i meet my boyfriend almost 2 months ago. And have tried 4 attempts to have sex which was not a success. He was arosed but i was very tight and he was in pain so was i. We tried a few times but now he tells me he cant he doesnt feel comfortable as we are not alone in the house. I dont know what to do and i dont know if this is normal,? What can i do to help? Is it maybe something wrong with me? He saud we can try when we completely alone in the house and if nothing happens then we just remain friends. Please help me as i really want this relationship to work. We have the best time when we together, but the sex seems tobe a problem.. Please help!
Tue, 28 Apr 2015
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Hello,
This isn't easy to tell.It could be related to inadequate lubrication which is usually a matter of psychological preparation for the sexual act.
This can be easily handled with artificial lubrication.
Another potential cause involves the vagina. When the woman is under psychological strest, muscle spasm may occur blocking the entrance.
Or he may be too gentle to overcome your virginity. When you are Virgin, there is a skin like membrane on the entrance of the vagina. This has to be ruptured during the first Intercourse and may cause pain and bleeding. Sometimes this membrane is too tight.
I hope I've helped!
You can contact me again if you'd like more information.
Kind regards!
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What Causes Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse?

Hello, This isn t easy to tell.It could be related to inadequate lubrication which is usually a matter of psychological preparation for the sexual act. This can be easily handled with artificial lubrication. Another potential cause involves the vagina. When the woman is under psychological strest, muscle spasm may occur blocking the entrance. Or he may be too gentle to overcome your virginity. When you are Virgin, there is a skin like membrane on the entrance of the vagina. This has to be ruptured during the first Intercourse and may cause pain and bleeding. Sometimes this membrane is too tight. I hope I ve helped! You can contact me again if you d like more information. Kind regards!