Hi Welcome to HEALTHCARE MAGIC..
I have gone through your query and can understand your concern...
As per your symptoms you must be suffering from
Balanitis. It is common in uncircumcised males. It is simple hygiene problem. If you do not wash under the foreskin, a cheesy material called
smegma accumulates, in between foreskin &
glans penis. The solution is to wash carefully with warm water. If a person has recurrent balanitis then circumcision( removal of foreskin) of penis is advised.
As per inability to last longer in bed (
Premature ejaculation) is concerned this problem is Psychological & is caused by factors such as
anxiety, over excitation & guilt. You could delay your ejaculation by doing following methods
1. Learn to identify and control the sensations that lead up to ejaculation & preventing these could delay your ejaculation.
2. Try to communicate with your partner to slow or stop during over-excitement.
3. There are also creams, gels, and a spray that may be used to delay ejaculation by reducing sensation. These medicines are applied to the penis before sex. Condoms with pre-applied gel are easily available in market.
If problem persist consult a sexologist
Don't worry you would be fine
Hoping your query is solved.