I am 30 years old, single, I started noticing some difficulty urinating after I masturbate, I did not pay attention to this since it was temporary. I had girlfriend last year thin we stopped seeing each other, after that I started masturbating again 1 to 2 times everyday, 4 months ago I met a girl and we had sex, I only lasted few seconds which never happened before, I was devastated, however few days later I had gonorrhea so I stopped seeing her. I was treated with ceftriaxone and azithromycin. and symptoms resolved. I met another girl and I also lasted for few seconds less than 10 seconds. this problem continued, I did not know what to do to treat premature ejaculation so I stopped masturbating because I also noticed the amount of my semen is becoming less. I met my current girlfriend and we are getting engaged next month but we did not have any sexual encounter yet. for 2 month now I have more difficulty initiating urination, and I feel numbness in the tip of my penis and scrotum. I masturbate every 3 days to relieve the pressure, but I only last for seconds when I do which was never the case before, even if I masturbate immediately for the second time I last longer but just for couple minutes. I saw a urologist because I thought I have some sort of prostatitis, I told him about my symptoms and that some times I see white clouds in my urine, he did rectal exam and he said the size is normal but it slightly swollen or boggy, urine analysis was clear. he gave me 5 day course of ciprofloxacin and naproxen ( which I finished last month) , he said even f its prostatitis we do not treat for 4 weeks now, because studies showed no benefit of prolonged antibiotic course. I still feel the same even worse, I still have difficulty initiating urination, and i have to squeeze, some times I have bad smell to my urine, and i have white clouds in urine that looks like semen, I still have mild burning occasionally, I still have the numbness in my scrotum and penis, and I feel that I get aroused very quickly. sometimes I feel strange in my privates that I am going to cum just from touching and kissing my girlfriend, obviously the problem is worsening What is the problem, How to treat this?? I do not want to lose my fiancée because of this problem