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I have gone through your query and can understand your concern.
It seems like you have
premature ejaculation, Which is condition in which ejaculation occurs with slight stimulation & lot early than desired. loss of erection after ejaculation is a normal procedure, the problem is you are ejaculating early.
Most cases of premature ejaculation do not have a physical cause & have psychological factors such as
anxiety, guilt,etc. Men often learn to control their ejaculation with sexual experience & in most cases it doesn't require any treatment. Following steps may be taken
-Relaxation technique- Don't
stress more about ejaculating early.Have communication with your partner to stop during over-excitement. This will help you delay ejaculation.
- You can try a different position during intercourse. sometimes a different position helps to reduce stress related to premature ejaculation.
-Counseling/
behavioral therapy help reduce anxiety related to premature ejaculation.
-There are also creams, gels, and a spray that may be used to treat premature ejaculation by reducing sensation.These medicines are applied to the penis before sex. condoms with pre-applied gels are also available in market.
Don't worry you would be fine
Hope this information helps.