I am 18 and I ve been dating and having sex with my first serious boyfriend for a year. He is the person I lost my virginity to. I always pee before and after sex. Sometimes I get excessively wet with clitoral stimulation (like peeing the bed amount of wet) and it s a complete turn off to me and makes me very insecure. I have never came, and I believe this is in part to my very low self esteem and not being comfortable with being naked. My question is why do I get so excessively wet, almost like I m squirting, but I m not orgasming? What s wrong with me?