Hi, the rounding and the top of the head of my penis has been extremely red and raw/painful for the past month, and though I have not masturbated for 12 days now it is still extremely raw and painful but mainly when it is partially or fully erect, which, despite my efforts, I cannot always control. It gets puffier and more painful when blood goes to it. I recently just saw a doctor, but I was nervous and my penis did not grow big enough for her to really see the issue. Now when I m at my normal size it remains painful, especially with friction against my underwear. I ve been using aquaphor for about 3 days, but it seems to only temporarilty relieve the pain. I m guessing this could be due to a scented lotion that I had been using for a while, but I m still confused and frustrated why it s so irritated. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!