Hi,eI really need your help in my current relationship. We happen to have been dating with my girlfriend for 7 months now, the first 3 months, we were taking things slow where we were involved in only romantic dates. We happened to fall in love with each other so bad. In the fourth month we started having sleepovers and that s when we came to know of our problem. As we were trying to get intimate, we realized that she couldn t get in the moods neither could she get turned on. We tried this for like 5 more times and it came to our knowledge that despite her love for me, she isnt attracted to me sexually. That even kissing is kind of disgusting for her. The strange thing is that, for her to get signs of arousal, she has to thing of the ex-boyfriend of whom their last encounter was 4 years ago and this really pisses me off and touches my esteem. She knows that the intimate part of a relationship is very important and especially for a man and so she took the initiative to start therapy sessions but to date, nothing has changed. Now she is considering letting me go and let her deal with her issues alone since she cannot bear me sticking around with her yet she cannot satisfy sexually. I really love her and have invested emotionally so much in this, to the extent that i consider marriage, and wouldn t just want to let go that easily. I kindly request your valuable assistance.