Hi
I am a 60 year old male and have had a recent life change to being a bisexual / gay male and noticed when I'm receiving anal sex my penis goes limp and will not get erect until my anus is empty or in other words my partner has finished. I thought it might be just when I was with someone so tried putting dildos and butt plugs up there and the same thing happens I go limp and can't get hard again until the toys are removed. Is this normal as I see gay men in photos and videos and these guys all seem to be hard and can ejaculate during anal penetration. Is there anything I can do to stay hard during anal sex?