Hi there Dr. I m a female and just seeking some answers for my health issues. I don t know how to put the questions in words. The question is, I am lacking pleasure during intercourse & I m not sure why? I get aroused and everything but once the penis is inside my vagina i feel no pleasure no sensation at all just going in and out. I feel like i am missing out of sex and i want to be well. I ve been like this ever since i lost my virginity and no I ve never been sexual assaulted as a child.