Hi, I had gone through your question and understand your concerns. It is common to have multiple comorbidities at this age. She has broken pelvis, difficulty urinating, migraines, numbness and forgetfulness.
It is common at this age to have pelvic fractures. Calcium tablets would help her to prevent fractures. Any women above 50 years should take
calcium supplement to prevent bone related issues. If broken pelvis hurts and if she is not ready for surgery she could take pain killers like zerodol sp twice daily for 2 weeks.
She can also try for
Teriparatide (20 mcg subcutaneously once a day into the thigh or abdominal wall) which can be used in postmenopausal women with
osteoporosis at high risk for fracture. Teriparatide increases of bone mass. It might be little costly but it is useful. If she is fit enough to undergo surgery, it is always the best option.
For difficulty urinating, she can use
oxybutynin which reduces
urinary incontinence.
For numbness in arm and hands could be because of B12 deficiency (lack of food rich in B12). It is good to under go serum B12 levels. If low B12 she can be treated for that. If she is a non vegetarian she can eat meat with high B12 content (like liver). If she is a vegetarian she may have to take B12 injections intra muscularly daily and gradually tapered it off, once the levels are corrected.
Forgetfullness (
dementia) is common age related problem. Donepezil/
rivastigmine are drugs which could be helpful for her forgetfulness. Also B12 supplements can decrease her forgetfulness.
Hope this answers your question. If you have additional questions or follow up questions then please do not hesitate in writing to us. I will be happy to answer your questions.
Wishing your mom a very good health!