Hi, Thanks for posting in HCM. I understand your concern. Many of the women experience the way you are feeling with pain and frequent urge to urinate after losing virginity. The pain could persist or appear on and off first few times due to stretching of vaginal mucosa because of lack of enough lubrication. There is noting much to be worried about it as it would gradually subside to normal as time goes by. You need to take care by maintaining good hygiene by washing the area with warm water and mild antiseptic solution. In case the pain doesn t subside, you can take analgesic like ibuprofen after food. Kindly ask your partner to be gentle during the next encounter and use water-based lubricant to prevent such episodes from happening again. Hope the information provided would be helpful. All the best.