Hello doctor, My girlfriend and I have a problem. I have a small/average sized penis (13cm), my girlfriend tells me that it is painful when we have sex with eachother. But one time we took a break in our relationship and she slept with another man who has a huge penis (about 20cm) she didnt tell me this but i found this out. But with him she only experienced pain at the beginning, she was drunk and high. now we are back together and this bothers me so much that i cant sleep anymore at night. I have no idea what the cause is. Was it because of the alcohol or drugs. Is she allergic to condoms (the material)? i want to save my relationship. your advice would be appreciated. Thank you
Hello. Thanks for writing to us. Inadequate lubrication and lack of proper physical intimacy is the cause of pain during the sex. You can use a lubricating gel like KY gel to decrease this. I hope this information has been both informative and helpful for you. Regards, Dr. Rakhi Tayal , drrakhitayal@gmail.com
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What Causes Pain During Intercourse?
Hello. Thanks for writing to us. Inadequate lubrication and lack of proper physical intimacy is the cause of pain during the sex. You can use a lubricating gel like KY gel to decrease this. I hope this information has been both informative and helpful for you. Regards, Dr. Rakhi Tayal , drrakhitayal@gmail.com