I am a 19 year old female, the other day, I was about to have sex(my first time). We were having problems putting it in and it took hours to work up to putting more and more in, (with breaks once in a while) but it wouldn t go all the way. So then we decided to try anal, which was awful as well because he has a very big penis. So now, a few days later, when I pee it really hurts and only a little comes out and it s kind of cloudy. My ass was in pain and when I looked, it looks my anus (or something) is out, it hurts quite a bit.