Hi, everytime me and my boyfriend have sex he gets scars on his penis or sometimes cuts which eventually go into scars! It's been an ongoing problem since the beginning of our relationship about 9months now. I've had herpes and still have genital warts and my boyfriend has caught herpes off me and his first attack was about 2 months ago and I had my 2nd attack about the same time. At first we thought the scars which are very visible were from my coil but I've had that removed for 3 weeks now and it's still happening. This morning we had sex then afterwards he noticed 3-4 sore see-through bumps in a cluster on his penis! My boyfriend refuses to go doctors because he said if he finds out it's warts he'll finish with me, but I can't go on with getting the blame for his pain or scars after sex any longer because it's really depressing now. Pleasssse help me :(