I am worried about the relationship between my daughter and her husband and their children. My daughter had herself declared legally insane just this last year after leaving her husband who has cancer, to go have an month log affair with a man in Nebraska. Her husband sent her the money to come on home with. Since she has been back they have been left homeless and are living here with my husband and I. Since being here they were supposed to clean they old apartment which the rent was paid up till the end of July. My husband and I ended up paying a professional company to clean the place as Lois, my daughter drank drano and was hospitalized for three days and we couldn t find her until the hospital called to tell us were she was. Cleanning house just overwhelms her and she is only supposed to do it fifteen minutes a day. With someone else. Both my daughter and son-in-law spend most of their time with him working and she stays in bed until when ever she feels hungry enough to come out of the bedroom and feed herself. She has no patients for anything and they point fingers at each other when they are upset. Needless to say it is the three children who suffer. Her oldest son from a previous marriage just turned 18 and wants nothing to do with his mom, the 11 year old daughter has to watch her two year old brother because mom resents taking care of him now. I might add the 11 year old daughter has had it with being the only one left except for me to take care of her bother. I don t know where begin to fix this problem as I have pipolar problems, my husband has anxiety problems and Lois has both problems and doesn t think she should get the proper treatment for her problems. She says why should I medicate myself when I don t have a problem. Help please this family is in terrible distress.