Hi..
Thanks for the query..
It looks like you are not compatible to the earring material and the symptoms of itchy, red and weepy ear piercing site is commonly seen due to it..
It is because the metal degrades or reacts when it comes in contact with air, water etc.
The degradation products causes an
allergic reaction that is inturn the cause of itchy,
redness, swelling etc..
So first of all you should get the symptoms resolved..
You can start cleaning the earlobes with antiseptic solution like
Povidone Iodine and then apply a combination of a
steroid and antiseptic ointment..
You can also do cool compresses over the earlobes.
If there is infection then a short script of antibiotics can be taken..
Once it heals you can wear gold or plastic earrings as they are inert materials and will not cause reaction..
Hope this helps..
Regards.