Hi,
Thanks for posting in HCM.
I understand your concern.
The problem what you are encountering is reaction of the tissues due to mechanical stretching and friction caused during intercourse.
Kindly do the following to overcome it.
1. Clean the area with antiseptic solution like Povidine-
iodine thrice daily.
2. After drying, apply
Neomycin with
hydrocortisone cream topically over the swelling.
3. Take anti-inflammatory
analgesic Tablet.
Ibuprofen after food.
4. Wear loose fitting undergarments and avoid friction in the area.
Maintain good genital hygiene and keep the area clean and dry. Abstain from sexual activities till the lesions heal completely.
To avoid such things in future, you can use water based lubricants and spend more time during foreplay.
Gradually, the swelling should reduce and subside completely.
Hope the information provided would be helpful.
All the best.