What Causes Swollen Ankles, Headaches And Sporadic Dizziness?

I have swollen ankles, my legs are sensitive and a little red (I m African American if this helps), headaches, memory loss/forgetfulness (I do have sleep apnea), dizziness every now and then, muscle pains/aches in knees, numbness in left arm mostly (happens often) , some hair loss around my forehead, blurry eyes when looking at something with a distance (but I do need glasses), sometimes a little chest pain but nothing major(comes and goes), I haven t gained or lost any weight (well that I know of, haven t been to doctors in a while), sometimes get neck pain also, cant hold arms up long enough to do hair without it starting to hurt or starting to get the feeling of a cramp -- My email is YYYY@YYYY