Hello dear I understood your concern deeply. * Your narration relates to the bacterial / viral inflammation of upper respiratory tract which may include salivary gland / adenoid / else . # consult your doctor for final diagnosis & management according to the clinical work up , till that time you should - gargles with salted lukewarm water 3 times a day - apply ice over externally swollen part - light diet with plenty of liquids - avoid oily/spicy/beverages - analgesics for temporary pain relief hope this will definitely support you to some extent. Wishing you better outcome from it. Thanks for using Health care magic . Regards .