What Causes The Urge To Urinate And Slight Vaginal Pain After Intercourse?

48 year old female, had perimenopause, menopause (no period for about 14 months). Had intercourse with spouse, 2 day later, had slight pain in vaginal area. Next day, a few occasions of immediate urge to urinate, slight burning, no blood in urine. But when I had these kind of attacks , have a few small redish and pinkish what looked like clots. have had a Bladder Infection years ago, felt simular. Also, have had yeast infections before, so I felt that 1 might be starting. So did yeast infection treatment, baths with baking soda and epsen salts. Been drinking cranberry juice, probiotics, eat yogart, drank extra water to flush out system for 3-4 days. Started to get better. Friday, I was okay all day, worked, in the evening had a mini attack , had bath, then okay. Worked yesterday (Saturday), was fine all day and night. Today, worked, no issue until this afternoon. Had urge to pee, held off for a bit (working), then relized have to go now , then another attack . Urge to urine did not go away even after I went, had pain in Vagina, then slighty pink mucus (from vagina, none seen in urine, but my urine has been a bit cloudy when some of these attacks occur). Got home, urinated again, still having an attack, unrine pale (water flushing) and no mucus, very pale pink spotting. During these attacks , feels like I don t just have to pee, but that my Vagina is trying to push something out (that is the only time it is painful, but not severe pain, just annoying/uncomfortable). Although, I am known to have a high tolerance for pain. Had another bath, got better, but still having urge to pee, slight pain (about 5 hours now). So methods may not be working, thinking I may need antibiotics. But now wondering if something else is going on. Note, I had a MRI about 2.5yrs ago,for a hip issue (due to athletic reasons, not related to any of this). Only mentioning it, because there was nothing wrong found with my bones, etc, but a small cyst on an ovary was seen. Family Physican, mentioned it, asked if I had any pain or cramping, no. Was Perimenapausal for a couple years already. Do not have any past history of problems with menstral cycle either. In fact, threw my own research and Dr. visits, realized I was perimenapausal, as I started having PMS systoms. So I am now wondering if it couls be something other then a Bladder/UTI, or yeast infection. Could the intercourse been a factor^