hello, i am a 24 year old female with no prior sex history. I have tried to have sex with my boyfriend but physically my vagina seems to not relax and open. I am more then comfortable and get naturally lubricated down there, but when he enters he can only go so far because i am not fully open. My hymen i believe has been broken as the first time we tried he said there was bleeding. I do occasionally get vaginal spasms sometimes during the day where my vagina will clench up/spasm uncontrollably. can you please help and what can i do to fix this? Thank you.