I have just turned 27 female live with my partner daughter and son and 8 months ago I gave birth to a girl at 39+ weeks but I had a placental abruption and she passed away shortly after her birth. Since then I lost weight and had sickness etc and I put it all down to grief but in the past 5 months I ve had severe weight loss drenching night sweats I can t concentrate and think the way I used to I ve lost over 2 stone and a stone of that was within the last 6 weeks. I got bloods done for months and always come up I m anemic low vitamin b12 (I ve had protein blood and other stuff show up in my urine yet antibiotics didn t help with any of the urine issues I ve had for a few months) my doctor sent me for an ultrasound on some swollen lymph nodes I ve had in my groin and neck for a couple months and I had a ct scan done too but the results were ok my lymph nodes look fine. Now I am waiting on my hematology appointment which is next week but the past couple weeks I feel even worse I can t look after my kids I am so exhausted I keep falling asleep I ve lost control of my bladder I can t feel when I m urinating I ve been having constant bowel movements which is so unlike me and now last night and today I ve been vomiting I just feel weak and pain and I have extremely sore knee bone pain and hips feel tender.