Hello and Welcome to ‘Ask A Doctor’ service.
I have reviewed your query and here is my advice.
Sorry to hear that you and your family is suffering from so many problems. I don't know whether you are too much addicted to your medicines or not but since I got to know from this long message that may be the reason why the pain is severe which is causing you so much of problems.
I am anaesthesiologist, meaning pain doctor in particular. You have landed up in right place for advice. There is something called pain clinic if you don't know about it just google it.
If you go there, Doctors like me do an examination to you and if they find your problem is severe and chronic then they start with painkillers or procedures like
nerve blocks, lumbar sympathetic block etcetera. All these are pain relieving procedures, if once done, you will have symptom free months or weeks.
So, consultation visits also will be less and you don't have to take any medicines at all after the procedure. kindly visit such pain clinic.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. Archana