On the right side, I have a severe earache, with slight drainage, my jaw is swollen and slightly painful when trying to bite down(teeth do not meet on this side, due to swelling?), also a bit of heat to the touch in the swollen area of jaw. This is recurring for me, maybe once a month or every other month for the past year. The last time I saw my dr., she suggested it was TMJ because when she tugged on my ear, it didn t hurt. But I still had earpain... I am diabetic, if that helps any.