Hello dear Greetings Sorry about your emotions! Regarding your bridge in communication between your you and your husband and similarly your child following a diagnosis of Asperger syndrome I strongly believe that inadequate communication is one of the symptoms displayed in patients that have asperger syndrome Asperger syndrome is a pervasive developmental disorder that has a predilection with the brain and is characterized as a mild form of autism which they display lack of emotional social and communication Concerning how to establish adequate communication with your family I will suggest you see a psychologist specialist so as to render the necessary Councelling and guidance towards your experience I hope this helps Regards