I m certain I m in a relationship with someone who has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. For almost 25 years. It took 10 years for things to start going really south, and I only discovered the concept of NPD a few years ago, after we almost divorced in 2009. My question is this: After spending a quarter century building a life with someone, I am now in my early 50s and he has managed to commandeer control of everything. I am deciding whether getting out or staying in is best for myself and my daughter. How does one decide what is actually best, and how do I regain control of our fair share of assets should I decide to leave. I need a support group, online, so I can visit as I can.