I have been married for 14 years now. Am 40 and my wife 38. In 2004 I started experiencing strange developments. Usually between Dec and March, I bleed after sex. After sex, I would feel like urinating and when I go to urinate, its blood that comes out and sometimes I hav pains to urinate because blood even clots. I have done various investigations but Drs dont diagnose any problem, please help.