Hello Thanks for choosing HCM for your health related queries You are suffering from anxiety. You have worries about your brother as his life is so messed up and you want to fix it. These problems cause significant anxiety in you. You care about your brother this is a good thing but that shouldn t become problem in your functioning. Some times excessive worries get transformed into depressive and anxiety symptoms so try to control your worries. I would suggest you to try relaxation exercises like Breathing exercises, yoga to keep yourself relaxed and to keep anxiety away. Behaviour therapy can be one modality to control these unwanted worries. If worries and anxiety persist even after controlling thoughts and psychological methods then visit a psychiatrist for help. If after evaluation you are diagnosed with anxiety disorder then there is need for medicines. Medicines like SSRIs as Fluoxetine, Paroxetine can help to reduce the anxiety and you will feel better. Visit a psychiatrist for evaluation and prescription of the drugs. Thanks