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Why Am I Anxious About My Wife S Loyalty Towards Me?

i have been married for 18 years and frome day one felt very insecure about my wifes dedications to our relationship.its mostly me I have major anxiety about it worry all the time about her leaving me finding someone else looking at other men emailing chating texting and she is not the kind of person to put her rep on the line for something stupid like that i need help with the anxiety i take lexapro now any help?
Mon, 29 Sep 2014
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Thank You for contacting HCM.

Medication is for temporary relief. As you find it difficult to trust her or become insecure so the best solution is to take your wife out for a dinner at a calm place. Their start discussing with your wife. In this way all doubts that you have would be cleared. Talk to her as a friend and do mention in the beginning that "whatever i will talk from now onward would be as a friend talking to his best & sincere friend". When talk will start then gradually you will discuss all your issues & in return she will clear them and at the same time if she has some concerns then those would also be brought to you.

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Why Am I Anxious About My Wife S Loyalty Towards Me?

Hello Thank You for contacting HCM. Medication is for temporary relief. As you find it difficult to trust her or become insecure so the best solution is to take your wife out for a dinner at a calm place. Their start discussing with your wife. In this way all doubts that you have would be cleared. Talk to her as a friend and do mention in the beginning that whatever i will talk from now onward would be as a friend talking to his best & sincere friend . When talk will start then gradually you will discuss all your issues & in return she will clear them and at the same time if she has some concerns then those would also be brought to you. Hope this answers your question. If you have additional questions or follow up questions then please do not hesitate in writing to us. Thank You