Hello Doctor My Name Is Xxxxx I Am 42yrs Old

hello doctor
My name is xxxxx
I am 42yrs old woman
My husband age is 48yrs
I got married in 2003 no kids.My health condition is good.
No physical relationship with my husband for yrs.
He never listens to any one. In April 2012 when i faced the problem of bleeding for nearly 2 months
doctor asked all details and she said to undergo fertility test to my husband.

Dec 13 th 2014 i got admitted in hospital in emergency periods pain
sept 21st i got periods ,OCT i din't get periods ,nov also i it got delayed
sometimes it delays so I used postpone tablet premoult in november 2014 and travelled by train to my in laws place( only two tablets for 2 days ) .
11th dec i got 1st day periods 13th dec went to hopital for emergency pains
I was not in a position to say something to them about postpone tab etc but doctors have written spontaneous abortion but accroding to my knowledge
it is not the case of obortion.But it has become important to me to get it confirmed that it is not obortion case.
how can i get it confirmed