my doctor really makes me feel guilty like im wasting his time when I go to appointments. So I was wondering if I can see my nurse? I have been trying for a baby for more than a year with no luck. I am now experiencing spotting for a week after period, pain in back almost like kidney pain and it gets worse when having intercourse and I get a lot of swelling in my abdomin and cramps throughout my whole cycle. Can the nurse look into this and is there a simple reason?