my husband age 62 is a heavy drinker 30 plus years.in the last 6 months or more he has had heavy nose bleeds skin rash and scratching all the time depression cannot focus and daydreams.and he also painted autos for 27 years, now retired from work. He does not shower for months thinks this is normal. Also doesn't like to answer the telephone. Picks at scabs on his legs till they bleed and now has scars there. He procrastinates everything.(I'm agunna)I can not drag him to our family doctor, i have been his wife for 36 years.2 years ago I had surgery for cervical cancer that was stage 1 and had a hysterectomy.This may or may not have anything to do with his problem. I am fine as far as I know. I could go on but that's it in a nutshell. We are both stressed out.