my husband has been suffering with sore, stinging sensation of the skin around the anus. It looks like little tiny dots that seep blood. He says it feels like when you get a rug burn / strawberry. The condition is getting worse. it hardly ever bothers him if he doesn't have a bowel movement after showering in the morning, but this is not always the case. I have been treating the area with Desitin and tea tree oil and then powder. This has been working for quite a while, but now there are these tiny, tiny bleeding dots / spots that are really stinging.