1.       Telepathy to be applied for God's work. Personal work is better done in person otherwise the other person can become mentally confused.

2.       Talking about it will help clarify many doubts. Talking can also help in breaking the ice.

3.       Being together is a nice opportunity to grow together in real and spiritual life.

4.       Even if one of them is having a relationship outside marriage, it brings stress to all involved.

5.       Marriage needs connection, relationship and commitment to work.

6.       Presence of any competitor can negatively impact each other's mental health. 

7.       Competitors may use sex, mental connection or other measures to their advantage but in some time, it will affect their mental health too. So it's better for them to stay in their own house.

8.       Couples just need to reduce the physical distance between us and communicate physically.

9.       Ram-Sita commitment for each other is so inspiring. Marriage is all about commitment.

10.   Past physical relationship outside marriage ----- emotional tantrums of that partner ----- seems sin to let go of her----- more physical relationship in future ----- even harder to wipe the memory of the physical touch ----- increase in misery overall

11.   Institution of marriage should be upheld. Make one's own marriage work. Marriages do need extra work when spouses have issues. Fight is mostly within for acceptance. Spouses are also humans, they are not an object or property to be possessed. Be genuinely available for one's spouse. Mostly marriages are lifelong until God grace ends them for genuine reasons.

12.   Keep one's lust under control. Not to go outside marriage, especially no relationship with someone else's husband/wife. Say no to a second or third marriage, when one's current spouse is available (both can have unexpectedly bad consequences). Girls, who feel lustful, go for sex without marriage ---- suffer from insecurities ----- become defensive (who will accept me now) ----- obstruction in full blossoming ----- they should realize that they are already empowered. Right person will come along at right time. Turn one's back on "wrong" relationships rightaway without any delay. Say a clear NO and don't give in.

13.   It is OK to love another woman. Love should be there for everyone. But a relationship outside marriage is not OK. ----GURUDEV Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

14.   Having sex or even marriage with another woman, will only make matters worse. It will hurt both spouses and this other woman also. We have to find a middle path that is win-win for all.

15.   To avoid hurting her further, allowing this other woman to marry another guy, would be true love for her. Allow her to be alert and think clearly.

16.   If the husband goes back to his wife, the other woman will see the real picture and move on. Overcome the boundaries, step out of your comfort zone to see reality.

Written by Dr Vaishalee

Best advice is to keep things simple in relationships. If you find yourself in a complicated relationship, get out of it asap.