Born With Partially Clubbed Feet. Having Chronic Back Pain And Severe Scoliosis. What Could It Be?

Question: Please read prior questions before you answer- after having about 50 adrenaline surges while laying on my right side for a brief time after my injury- I felt like I was going to jump out of my skin. I got back on my computer and started googling the symptoms.One thing led to another & I can across Vascular Ehlers-Danlos Hypermobility-It was like a light was finally at the end of a tunnel. I am 51, a former gymnast & contortionist. I was born w/ partially clubbed feet. As an infant they said I was floppy & I slept in my crib in the straddle splits. I did not walk until after 2. I score 7 on the Beighton Score, even today w/ the injury. Pretty much every complication I have had over the years, every health problem,dislocated hips, elbows, knees, the severe scoliosis I have had since I was really young, the chronic back pain, the emerg hysterectomy at 32, because of varicose veins in the uterus, some 2" wide- all related.I had a post op complication w/ cardiac/respitory arrest in 2000- the stitches inside my neck after removing the rest of my throid came apart & I was in ICU on a respirator for 3 days. I am awaiting XXXXXXX care at the Mayo clinic to remove the 2 discs- they have sad they believe the sacrum stress fractures will heal over time. My 3 kids, age 31, 26 & 19 score 7, 7 & 6. My son has dislocated his knees 3 times, elbow once, detached bicep 2 times, daughter at 8 had post op complications of burst artery in throat 6 weeks after tonsils removed w/ collapsed lung, also IBS, abnormal stretch marks for a thin person, bad valves in veins. Where do we go from this point? I have to grand daughters? Do we test them now or my son first? Who do I need to see? How will this effect my daughter and her chances to carry a child w/o complications? Believe me, I am happy to have a real direction to go in, just worried for my kids and family?