Brief Answer:
Masturbation is safe and does not affect sex life or sperm production

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for writing to us.

Masturbation is natural and normal thing. It is done by 95% of the males in the world, mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in sexual activity. Rather regular masturbation keeps genitalia active for sex life and reproductive life.

Olive oil massage of penis and balls as such does not cause any problem.

Advantage:
It helps in improving skin of the organs and makes it shining and smooth.
It helps in blood circulation which may improve health of organs.
Massaging balls helps in identification of abnormality in organ early if it is there by chance.
It has been said that it improves sex performance but no specific clinical studies are done to prove this.

Disadvantage:
No specific disadvantage except during massage one should not give access pressure to organs and should not over stretch the skin. It may damage if not done gently.


Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.

Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.

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Brief Answer:
doing regular masturbation can prevent early ejaculation

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for follow up.

First of all clarification about over excitement and early ejaculation. Many young men like you face such problem due to sensitivity of glans penis during sex in initial sex life. As time progresses sensitivity comes under control and ejaculation happens at appropriate time. In short practice makes the man perfect.
Other reason is likely pain of your girlfriend. It creates problem in romantic/arousal feelings in your mind which can cause early ejaculation.

One simple option to treat this problem from your side is just do masturbation at least 2 hours before sex encounter. This will help to evacuate seminal vesicles full of semen and during sex semen will take time to come out.

Other aspect need to be treated is pain of your partner.
- Is it due to her intact hymen?
- Does she feel fear of pain when you insert penis and she subconsciously
tighten her vaginal muscles?
- Does she feel dryness in vagina?
- Does she have painful menstruation?

Ask her details that what she feels during sex and let me know.

I will be happy to help further.

All the best.

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Brief Answer:
she needs counseling and can take pain killer medicine before sex

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for information. Many virgin girls face such problems. Initially in some females until hymen completely broken there is pain for 2-3 intercourse. Later on there will be no pain. Even in some females there is no pain at all with first attempt of sex. And many do not feel any hymen breaking as hymen is already broken before due to some strenuous activity or during playing sports.

She has to relax herself from thoughts of pain. She can take pain killer medicine like diclofenac or ibuprofen before 2 hours of sex to prevent pain. After initial experience she will also learn that pain is pleasurable overall.Almost after 2-3 attempts of sex she will not have any pain.

So explain this aspect to her and motivate her to be relaxed. You can spare more time in foreplay so she would have enough lubrication which helps in preventing pain.

Even after this problem continues you can use lignocaine gel initially to prevent pain but this will reduce erotic sensation also. To use this gel you need to consult doctor.

Note: I suggest to use condom for safe sex.

Hope this answer is helpful. Do not hesitate to ask further if still any doubt.

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Take care and all the best.

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