Question: I dont know if you can help me but I have nothing to lose at this point. I am a 51 year female going through menopause. At 44 i was perimenopausal. This may be complicated. Bear with me. At the age of 7 I incurred a skull fracture in the left temporal lobe with a concussion due to a bicycle accident. I recovered, but was considered aloof by my teachers in elementary school. In puberty I experienced every other month extreme menstrual cramps. Motrin didn't work. My sister in law gave me 2 shots of whiskey. That was the only thing thing that worked. My breast started to develop normally, then decreased in size. About 15 I developed hair on them and have since gone to electrolosis. I am fair skinned, not of mediteranian origin. I have a history of miscarriage and lack of conceiving, however I am blessed with 2 children, good healthy children that I naturally conceived at the age of 30/31. There is more. Unfortunately, due to my HMO I have established a mental health history which my husband of 30 years and I believe is incorrect. I went after the birth of my second child. I have also gone to neurologists. As a teenager, I could not gain weight. At times, i lack concentration, I have insomnia, I have randomly ringing in my left ear since I was a teenager. I sneeze when eating certain foods, especially at restaurants. i know I cant take MSG. At randon times eye focusing is difficult. I wear glasses since 16.I confuse my left side and right side at times. An EMG revealed that my right arm is 30% stronger than my left. I am left handed. The local endocrinologist will not take me as a patient since my mother never took me to one before. I dont have an established endocrinology history. I have minor symptoms and now vertically oriented calification over the posterior paraspinous soft tissue associated with the dorsal spinous process.. something call heterotopic ossification related to a prior ligamentous injury. Unfortunately, due to the mental health history,which my husband and I believe is incorrect, I am now experiencing communication problems with my current doctors. Please advise.