Have Mole That Changes Its Colour. Could It Be Cancerous?
I understand your query & concerns.
While yes, you may upload your photograph, it will not change my opinion.
Personally i do not feel from your description, it is malignant but these things are at best arbitary yardsticks clinically.
Once it has been decided to take it off, i suggest best take it off witha 1 cm margin surrounding...what we refer to as an 'Exciscion biopsy'. Then chill...whatever the outcome, you will be safe & clear in your head-space as it is out in toto. I have never seen the sense in part removals as the irritation to the lesion may in itself serve as an 'irritant' & promote a malignant transformation in the long run.
I do hope my view is clear, precise & helps you make an informed deciscion irrespective of the final outcome after the biopsy.
Cheers & Good Luck Girl! Godspeed!
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
Dermatologist, Cosmetologist, Venreologist XXXXXXX Hospital, Bangalore, India.