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Is It Normal To Have Lengthy Menstruation?
Question: wife got period bleeding always 9-10 days.it it normal or abnormal???her ovaluaton and more fertile period was too goes vain.after we had relationship and no pregnancy.
last period:31 march
bleeding stooped and bath:april 10
sexual relationship:11-20 april(8 times)
next period:22 april
bleeding will stop and ready at :30 april
but ovalution &fertile periods:7-8 april,28 apr-1 may.
last period:31 march
bleeding stooped and bath:april 10
sexual relationship:11-20 april(8 times)
next period:22 april
bleeding will stop and ready at :30 april
but ovalution &fertile periods:7-8 april,28 apr-1 may.
Brief Answer:
It is normal
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear,
I have gone through your question and understand your concerns.
If the period duration was same since menarche, then there is no problem in periods.
Some females have physiological long periods and that is completely normal.
The ovulation days are 14 days prior to the next periods, and the fertile period is 7 days prior to 7 days after ovulation day.
There is no problem in conceiving in such a scenario.
Hope you found the answer helpful.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
OBGYN
It is normal
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear,
I have gone through your question and understand your concerns.
If the period duration was same since menarche, then there is no problem in periods.
Some females have physiological long periods and that is completely normal.
The ovulation days are 14 days prior to the next periods, and the fertile period is 7 days prior to 7 days after ovulation day.
There is no problem in conceiving in such a scenario.
Hope you found the answer helpful.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
OBGYN
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Last time she had an period at March 31st.she taken bath on 10 th.
This time she had an period at April 22 nd.she will take bath on 30 th onwards
Am following last two months also.
As per above ,Cycle was 23 days. Bleeding period was 9-11 days,Lets say Average 10 days.(Last 3 mponths I followed)
Last time we had an sex after 10-20 (8 days) and no pregnancy.
When I checked in net,we had sex after ovalution and fertile period.
Her ovalution and fertile period was 7-10 april as per Application /net.she saying there is bleeding.
This time also I searched a lot in internet and installed android application too,
This shows 28-01 was ovalution and fertility period.
She was ready from 30 th onwards.
[Please tell me the date which is high chance of pregnancy
By the way she doent love me.her parents forcefully married to me by rejecting her love.
But I love my wife more than anything.
She asked divorce four times and I told I never give,
Finally their parents told if she left me ,they wont alive .
For the sake of her parents ,she accepted yto live
My parents also stopped talking to me stince she was not pregannat.
My parents telling me or my wife having health issue.like that
even though she s not interested in sex ,we need a baby which lead both happy lyf
to convince both our parents.
she closing her eyes am doing intercourse
its very hard for me but i have no option
I will send another detail.
s is my another problem during sex
am lost... I feel like I made a mistake and don't know what to do. She was 23 and I was 26. After marriage , She didn't want to kiss in the beginning, more than pecks that is. She also didn't want sex after marriage too. I kissed her lightly, and just felt horny all the time.. The first time we had sex after she came Saudi, but she had to be pushed to even do that. I ask her if she's horny and she says no, she's never horny. She doesn't want my tongue in her mouth, she freaks out if her hand accidentally touches my penis, and she always wants the light off when having sex, oh and the blankets up over us. So no intimate kissing anywhere, anytime, no oral sex on me, not much seeing her nude, never sex anywhere except in the bed, no shower or fun places. Basically, we just have sex for parents happiness.But not at all satisfied.am saying its same to sex with dead body and wife doesn’t make any difference.
That's it, no making out ever, not one time, no her touching my penis, not once ever, no her jumping on me and wanting sex from me or wanting me sexually or even wanting me to sexually please her. Maybe that's enough for some people... I don't know if I'm wrong. It's not that she's self-conscious thoug. She is so hot that she keeps a photo of herself on her cell phone and in the photo slot in her wallet. Not me and her, but just a photo of her. I have told her of my unhappiness about these things many times and she says that she doesn't like it and I'm being selfish and always thinking of myself and not her feelings.
It's not bad, pretty good, but something is missing. I don't feel connected to her. I want to kiss her without sex. I want her to touch me sexually. I feel like I need her to behave like she wants me. She is good about giving me sex at least because she knows it is a "duty" of some kind for a wife. She s closing her eyes and am doing intercourse is bullshit and rubbish.That's how she explains it. She thinks it's important for us do have sex. But the problem is that I think it's important to be more intimate like kissing, touching, foreplay... I just feel like she is doing the absolute bare minimum and I feel like I shouldn't have to live my life this way. I have one life. Our sex life is scheduled.. She is very clear that she loves me and want to be with me forever, but she just doesn't care about these things. Problem is that I do, very much. I am not happy most of the time. I am depressed inside and it's starting to show more and more. I am also fantasizing and dreaming and the intimacy I had in the past. I don't know what to do. I would feel terrible leaving her. She depends on me and loves me and is happy, but I'm not. She would be very hurt if I told her it had to end and it is sooo hard to do that. I wish we could fix it, but she says "this is who she is" and she does a alot for me. She feels like she does a lot by letting me see her naked a little in the low lit room and things like that. But it's not a lot to me. I wouldn't be posting this if It wasn't serious. I have seriously been unhappy in this relationship since we got married and I realized nothing was changing and getting better. I thought it would get better after we got married and started having sex, but it's not. It may seem like I'm lucky to have what I have. I am lucky in ways, but I just can't stop wanting intimacy other than just intercourse. I don't know if I'm weird that I need more that just intercourse, but I just can't get over it and I keep trying week after week. I am lost ???
x a lot for your words
even though she s not interested in sex ,we need a baby which lead both happy lyf
she closing her eyes am doing intercourse.
its very hard for me but i have no option.
she doesnt like to kiss in lips
she itself remove her clothes and close her eyes.
them i will do intercourse .he never change any position and doesn't show any feelings.
till now she never hugged /kissed me /touched me.
i need my wife to pregnant.That baby will lead our life
i always forgive my wife and that guy continuously cheating girls
elow are real problems
we are married one year before
I noticed 20 days she s not happy in marriage lyf.
when I checked her XXXXXXX he loved one guy and hates me.
then I told to her parents and they warned her
she realized and promised me here after she wont contact
then I came abroad ,after 10 months I bring abroad
still she hate and then I found out she s n touch with same guy
she gave hard time during phone conversation of 10 months too
again their parents told they will die and now again she told she wont contact
I told to her cousins and my wife tols she s addict
now she s changing
if I told to my parents it will led to divorce
my love on her was true
still am waiting for her to love,care ,respect rather than sex
plsadvice
The fertile window begins five days prior to ovulation, and ends the day after an egg is released. Supposing a perfectly regular 28-day menstrual cycle with ovulation at Day 14, this would mean that the fertile window lasts between Cycle Days 9-15.
as per above 01 may is ovaluation.
28-2 is best day for sex
but 28,29 goes vain in bleeding
mam >>kindly advice
This time she had an period at April 22 nd.she will take bath on 30 th onwards
Am following last two months also.
As per above ,Cycle was 23 days. Bleeding period was 9-11 days,Lets say Average 10 days.(Last 3 mponths I followed)
Last time we had an sex after 10-20 (8 days) and no pregnancy.
When I checked in net,we had sex after ovalution and fertile period.
Her ovalution and fertile period was 7-10 april as per Application /net.she saying there is bleeding.
This time also I searched a lot in internet and installed android application too,
This shows 28-01 was ovalution and fertility period.
She was ready from 30 th onwards.
[Please tell me the date which is high chance of pregnancy
By the way she doent love me.her parents forcefully married to me by rejecting her love.
But I love my wife more than anything.
She asked divorce four times and I told I never give,
Finally their parents told if she left me ,they wont alive .
For the sake of her parents ,she accepted yto live
My parents also stopped talking to me stince she was not pregannat.
My parents telling me or my wife having health issue.like that
even though she s not interested in sex ,we need a baby which lead both happy lyf
to convince both our parents.
she closing her eyes am doing intercourse
its very hard for me but i have no option
I will send another detail.
s is my another problem during sex
am lost... I feel like I made a mistake and don't know what to do. She was 23 and I was 26. After marriage , She didn't want to kiss in the beginning, more than pecks that is. She also didn't want sex after marriage too. I kissed her lightly, and just felt horny all the time.. The first time we had sex after she came Saudi, but she had to be pushed to even do that. I ask her if she's horny and she says no, she's never horny. She doesn't want my tongue in her mouth, she freaks out if her hand accidentally touches my penis, and she always wants the light off when having sex, oh and the blankets up over us. So no intimate kissing anywhere, anytime, no oral sex on me, not much seeing her nude, never sex anywhere except in the bed, no shower or fun places. Basically, we just have sex for parents happiness.But not at all satisfied.am saying its same to sex with dead body and wife doesn’t make any difference.
That's it, no making out ever, not one time, no her touching my penis, not once ever, no her jumping on me and wanting sex from me or wanting me sexually or even wanting me to sexually please her. Maybe that's enough for some people... I don't know if I'm wrong. It's not that she's self-conscious thoug. She is so hot that she keeps a photo of herself on her cell phone and in the photo slot in her wallet. Not me and her, but just a photo of her. I have told her of my unhappiness about these things many times and she says that she doesn't like it and I'm being selfish and always thinking of myself and not her feelings.
It's not bad, pretty good, but something is missing. I don't feel connected to her. I want to kiss her without sex. I want her to touch me sexually. I feel like I need her to behave like she wants me. She is good about giving me sex at least because she knows it is a "duty" of some kind for a wife. She s closing her eyes and am doing intercourse is bullshit and rubbish.That's how she explains it. She thinks it's important for us do have sex. But the problem is that I think it's important to be more intimate like kissing, touching, foreplay... I just feel like she is doing the absolute bare minimum and I feel like I shouldn't have to live my life this way. I have one life. Our sex life is scheduled.. She is very clear that she loves me and want to be with me forever, but she just doesn't care about these things. Problem is that I do, very much. I am not happy most of the time. I am depressed inside and it's starting to show more and more. I am also fantasizing and dreaming and the intimacy I had in the past. I don't know what to do. I would feel terrible leaving her. She depends on me and loves me and is happy, but I'm not. She would be very hurt if I told her it had to end and it is sooo hard to do that. I wish we could fix it, but she says "this is who she is" and she does a alot for me. She feels like she does a lot by letting me see her naked a little in the low lit room and things like that. But it's not a lot to me. I wouldn't be posting this if It wasn't serious. I have seriously been unhappy in this relationship since we got married and I realized nothing was changing and getting better. I thought it would get better after we got married and started having sex, but it's not. It may seem like I'm lucky to have what I have. I am lucky in ways, but I just can't stop wanting intimacy other than just intercourse. I don't know if I'm weird that I need more that just intercourse, but I just can't get over it and I keep trying week after week. I am lost ???
x a lot for your words
even though she s not interested in sex ,we need a baby which lead both happy lyf
she closing her eyes am doing intercourse.
its very hard for me but i have no option.
she doesnt like to kiss in lips
she itself remove her clothes and close her eyes.
them i will do intercourse .he never change any position and doesn't show any feelings.
till now she never hugged /kissed me /touched me.
i need my wife to pregnant.That baby will lead our life
i always forgive my wife and that guy continuously cheating girls
elow are real problems
we are married one year before
I noticed 20 days she s not happy in marriage lyf.
when I checked her XXXXXXX he loved one guy and hates me.
then I told to her parents and they warned her
she realized and promised me here after she wont contact
then I came abroad ,after 10 months I bring abroad
still she hate and then I found out she s n touch with same guy
she gave hard time during phone conversation of 10 months too
again their parents told they will die and now again she told she wont contact
I told to her cousins and my wife tols she s addict
now she s changing
if I told to my parents it will led to divorce
my love on her was true
still am waiting for her to love,care ,respect rather than sex
plsadvice
The fertile window begins five days prior to ovulation, and ends the day after an egg is released. Supposing a perfectly regular 28-day menstrual cycle with ovulation at Day 14, this would mean that the fertile window lasts between Cycle Days 9-15.
as per above 01 may is ovaluation.
28-2 is best day for sex
but 28,29 goes vain in bleeding
mam >>kindly advice
Brief Answer:
Detailed answer below
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear,
I have gone through your question and understand your concerns.
You and your wife need to talk and clarify all the issues among both of you.
There is a solution to every problem. If possible, you both should meet a counsellor too. This will help you both.
The ovulation day of a 23-24 days cycle is on day 9-10 from the day of the periods.
The fertile period in this situation is from Day 5 to day 11.
Moreover, there are other causes of inability to conceive like hormonal disturbances, tubal blockage or semen abnormalities, which should be tested for and treated accordingly.
Hope you found the answer helpful.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
Detailed answer below
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear,
I have gone through your question and understand your concerns.
You and your wife need to talk and clarify all the issues among both of you.
There is a solution to every problem. If possible, you both should meet a counsellor too. This will help you both.
The ovulation day of a 23-24 days cycle is on day 9-10 from the day of the periods.
The fertile period in this situation is from Day 5 to day 11.
Moreover, there are other causes of inability to conceive like hormonal disturbances, tubal blockage or semen abnormalities, which should be tested for and treated accordingly.
Hope you found the answer helpful.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
SORRY MAM
HER CYCLE WAS 22 DAYS.
PLEASE TELL THE DAYS WE NEED TO HAVE SEX
SHE S READY FROM 30 APRIL ONWARDS.
OVALUATION ALSO AT 30 APRIL
AFTER OVALUTION ONE DAY OR THREE DAYS WAS FERTILE DAYS
PLEASE CONFIRM FOLLOWING ARE CORRECT
FERTILE-27,28,29(NOT POSSIBLITY OF SEX SINCE SHE HAS BLEEDING FOR 9 DAYS)
OVALUTION-30
FERTILE-1,2
PLS CONFIRM ELSE U CAN PROPOSE DATES
BECOZ OF ALL I GOR HYPER TENSION TOO
Pregnancy is technically only possible during the five days before ovulation through to the day of ovulation
IS IT RIGHT OR WRONG
30 THE SHE WILL GET OVALUTION
I AHVE CHANCE OF ONE DAY
PLEASE ADVICE
HER CYCLE WAS 22 DAYS.
PLEASE TELL THE DAYS WE NEED TO HAVE SEX
SHE S READY FROM 30 APRIL ONWARDS.
OVALUATION ALSO AT 30 APRIL
AFTER OVALUTION ONE DAY OR THREE DAYS WAS FERTILE DAYS
PLEASE CONFIRM FOLLOWING ARE CORRECT
FERTILE-27,28,29(NOT POSSIBLITY OF SEX SINCE SHE HAS BLEEDING FOR 9 DAYS)
OVALUTION-30
FERTILE-1,2
PLS CONFIRM ELSE U CAN PROPOSE DATES
BECOZ OF ALL I GOR HYPER TENSION TOO
Pregnancy is technically only possible during the five days before ovulation through to the day of ovulation
IS IT RIGHT OR WRONG
30 THE SHE WILL GET OVALUTION
I AHVE CHANCE OF ONE DAY
PLEASE ADVICE
Brief Answer:
Ovulation on day 8
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear, the ovulation likely occur on day 8 which is on 30 April, however the fertile days are from5 days before to 5 days after the ovulation, though the maximum chance of conception are from five days prior to one day after ovulation.
You can have intercourse till five days after 30 April.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
Ovulation on day 8
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear, the ovulation likely occur on day 8 which is on 30 April, however the fertile days are from5 days before to 5 days after the ovulation, though the maximum chance of conception are from five days prior to one day after ovulation.
You can have intercourse till five days after 30 April.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Prasad
Brief Answer:
Intercourse only after bleeding stops
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear, you can have intercourse only after bleeding stops.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
Intercourse only after bleeding stops
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear, you can have intercourse only after bleeding stops.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Yogesh D
S mam.am aware my worry was 70% fertile ays goes in bleeding.now 30 to 5 we will intercouse id she doesnt pregnant means pla advice further.last time we has intercourse after fertile period .nothinf work out
Brief Answer:
Can go for infertility treatment
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear,
You should try in the fertile period, and if possible, you can go infertility treatment.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
Can go for infertility treatment
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear,
You should try in the fertile period, and if possible, you can go infertility treatment.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Dear mam
Fertility was 5 days before ovalution to one day after ovalution
5 days before not possible
30 th today s ovalution
1 was also fertile
Now after 5 days after ovalution is fertile period means 1,2,3,4,5 also have high chance of pregnancy
If yes we will ahve intercourse
Else i will decline
My wife was nt comfortable with sex
Fertility was 5 days before ovalution to one day after ovalution
5 days before not possible
30 th today s ovalution
1 was also fertile
Now after 5 days after ovalution is fertile period means 1,2,3,4,5 also have high chance of pregnancy
If yes we will ahve intercourse
Else i will decline
My wife was nt comfortable with sex
Brief Answer:
Chances of pregnancy till 5 days after
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear, chances of pregnancy are till 5 days after ovulation.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
Chances of pregnancy till 5 days after
Detailed Answer:
Hi dear, chances of pregnancy are till 5 days after ovulation.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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