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Suggest Remedy For Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse
Question: I am a virgin and my boyfriend and i have tried to have sex three times. Every time we have tried he will barely get inside, he is trying to slowly enter since it is painful, and when he pulls out I am bleeding a lot. I'm concerned there is something wrong with me.
Brief Answer:
There is nothing wrong with you, it is a normal phenomenon.
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for trusting us with your health concern.
It is normal for virgins to bleed when penetration is attempted.
Since total penetration is not happening, you are bleeding every time that it is being attempted.
Can you please clarify - what do you mean by bleeding a lot ?
Can you quantify the bleeding amount please ?
Once complete vaginal penetration happens once, you should not bleed again.
Try using a lubricant such as KY jelly or Petroleum Jelly, that will also help.
Try and relax, and please understand that every girl goes through this and it is a natural phase.
Try not to panic / get anxious or tighten yourself down there.
Try fingering before actual penetration, and a lot of fore play.
Do not worry, there is nothing wrong with you.
All the best.
Please feel free to discuss further.
There is nothing wrong with you, it is a normal phenomenon.
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for trusting us with your health concern.
It is normal for virgins to bleed when penetration is attempted.
Since total penetration is not happening, you are bleeding every time that it is being attempted.
Can you please clarify - what do you mean by bleeding a lot ?
Can you quantify the bleeding amount please ?
Once complete vaginal penetration happens once, you should not bleed again.
Try using a lubricant such as KY jelly or Petroleum Jelly, that will also help.
Try and relax, and please understand that every girl goes through this and it is a natural phase.
Try not to panic / get anxious or tighten yourself down there.
Try fingering before actual penetration, and a lot of fore play.
Do not worry, there is nothing wrong with you.
All the best.
Please feel free to discuss further.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Prasad
It would probably fill a liner or small pad.
It usually lasts 3-5 minutes then stops altogether.
I sometimes even bleed when he fingers me or when I do it myself.
It usually lasts 3-5 minutes then stops altogether.
I sometimes even bleed when he fingers me or when I do it myself.
Brief Answer:
Hymen is not completely ruptured, which is why that is happening.
Detailed Answer:
That means that your hymen has not broken completely.
You need to try and have complete vaginal penetration once.
Since there has been only partial penetration, the hymen has not torn completely, there might be bits of it remaining, that leads to bleeding when you try again.
So please indulge in complete vaginal sex once, that will sort out the problem.
Feel free to contact me directly anytime, using the following link -http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-aarti-yyyyyyyyy/64623
Take care.
Hymen is not completely ruptured, which is why that is happening.
Detailed Answer:
That means that your hymen has not broken completely.
You need to try and have complete vaginal penetration once.
Since there has been only partial penetration, the hymen has not torn completely, there might be bits of it remaining, that leads to bleeding when you try again.
So please indulge in complete vaginal sex once, that will sort out the problem.
Feel free to contact me directly anytime, using the following link -http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-aarti-yyyyyyyyy/64623
Take care.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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