Brief Answer:
He is feeling low

Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX

Thanks for posting your query .

Let me tell you one thing . Man takes his pride in his penis size and his ability to perform in sex . Let us try to analyse what is going through his mind .

He is depressed from the moment he realized that he is not able to perform well in sex . He is shattered and can't express it with any his friends or family ( because he considers it as a matter of shame ) . He is worried that whether this problem is a short term or a permanent one . He feels he may lose you as he may never satisfy you .

With all these things going on in his mind , you took him to a therapist . It might be that he was not yet prepared mentally to open up about his Erectile problem with an other person other than you ( I am not sure whether he was ready to open up with you ) . So that consultation made him look like a loser and he wants to avoid you as you know about his condition .

I advise you just leave him by himself for 2-3 days and after that talk to him like nothing happened . Once he starts feeling comfortable you can assure him that he means a lot to you and sex is just a small part of life and you love him for what ever he is ...

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Brief Answer:
Be in contact with him

Detailed Answer:
Hi

First of all try to establish a social contact with him . Just send him text message in casual way . Don't keep apologizing , it will remind him of his problem .

Just chat casually and talk about general topics . He may resist you but you keep trying . But don't pressurize him too much . If he is not responding to 4-5 text message stop it for the day , send again the next day .

Try to call him once in 3-4 days . If he cuts your call try again once but don't keep on calling .

Just keep doing this and he shall realize that you care for him .

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